This week I am thinking about goal setting. Not "the goals that I am setting" but "what is the most effective way to set goals?".
I always quote Art and Fear, by David Bayles and Ted Orland. That book taught me that focusing on the process, or the "doing" was much more important than the "having done" or the achievement.
People usually focus on achievement, because it feels good, and it is socially measurable (STATUS!!!). I think focusing on "doing" instead of "having done" is a good way to approach goal setting. It is easier with some goals than others. For example... if your goal is to write a novel in 2023, that is big and hard, and it's not easy to know if you are making progress until mid-year.
But, in order to write a novel, you have to regularly write LOTS of words. And if you do that for long enough, you will probably eventually have a novel. It might not be any good, but that is a different discussion.
(Sidebar: If it is your first novel, it probably won't be much good, but you have to write the first one so that you can write the second one! Most people don't write the first one because they are afraid it will be bad... let me assure you...IT WILL BE BAD, now go write it so that I can read your 3rd or 4th or 5th novel and love it.) THIS!!!!!!
So, instead of setting an "Achievement Goal" of "writing a novel" Perhaps a more productive, "Process Goal" would be "Write 1000 words, 5 days a week". It seems like you would know in a week or two if you were keeping your promise to yourself.
I am super interested in translating "Achievement Goals" into "Process Goals". I would love to see your examples of this... send them to me here.
Go be weird.
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Talk to you next week.
-Spencer, Owner of 4KWeeks.com
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